Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Today's Truth : Is Acting Like a Lady a Thing of the Past?

Today's Truth : Is Acting Like a Lady a Thing of the Past?: Sometimes I feel like John the Baptist crying out in the wilderness; lamenting about many women and their lack of self-respect.  My questi...

Is Acting Like a Lady a Thing of the Past?

Sometimes I feel like John the Baptist crying out in the wilderness; lamenting about many women and their lack of self-respect.  My question?  Is acting like a lady a thing of the past?

For too many women all it takes is a text for sex message and they are doing the do without so much as a first date to the movies or a walk in the park. These women are making it real hard for those of us who know the truth.  Men value women that act like ladies and not dogs in heat.

Women are not men and we shouldn't be acting like we are. In civilized society women have always set a higher standard for intimacy in relationships. But something strange happened on the way to the future.  Women are not valuing themselves and therefore are letting men determine our value which is reduced to our body parts i.e. fat ass and big tits.

We are so much more than that and we need to conduct ourselves as the prizes that we are.  Grinding your ass up against every dude in the club is not dancing.  Pretending you're on a stripper pole at the club is not attractive.  Having multiple "baby daddies" is not cute even if you are.

Who's gonna put a ring on it if you're so easy to bed that the guy doesn't even have to buy you a happy meal to pull your panties down?

Whatever happened to saying "no" to men?  As in, "No, you can't move in with me when you don't even have a job."  "No, I won't have sex with you and you don't know my last name." "No, you can't drive my car and not put gas in it."  "No, I will not let you use and abuse me and quickly dump me for Mz. New Booty."

I don't know where our backbone went but until we find it men will continue to be comfortable not putting forth ANY effort to date us and win our affection.  They'll just continue to ride free on your easy booty.